The silence of your birth child is hard.. very hard The relationship between a birth mother and birth child is not an easy one after they have connected. In the beginning, at least for me, there were a lot of questions, a lot of sharing, and a lot of pain. There was also a great deal… [Read More]
Facing Truths Without Your Birth Child
As the holiday season fast approaches for those of us who have lost a birth child it is not something we look forward to. As I told you in my post on December 23rd 2010 here It’s almost 2 years since I made that post. I wish I could say much has changed, it hasn’t.… [Read More]
Happy Mother’s Day To My Fellow BirthMothers
Mother’s Day is a very difficult day for birth mothers. It’s a day where you think of all the Mothers out there that have family gathering to give her cards, flowers, etc. For most of us we only think of this day as what could have been, what should have been. A tremendous feeling of… [Read More]
The Loss Of A Birth Child Knows No Time Limit
I read an article the other day in our local paper. It was about a 15 year old girl who was forced to give up her baby at birth in 1982. No, this is not news for those of you who read my blog. There are a lot of us out there who had this happen… [Read More]
A Quiet Tear
There are many times in my daily routine that I find myself faced with something that brings up the loss of my child. This can happen when I read an email, watch a TV program, read an article in the paper, read a post in Facebook, or wake from a dream. When it happens it can take my breath… [Read More]