This time of year is very difficult. If you have not found your birth child you wonder if ‘they’ are happy, if ‘they are loved, if ‘they’ will have a good Christmas. Not knowing hurts. If you have found your birth child, you wish that you could be part of their joy, you wish you… [Read More]
The Loss Of A Child Is The Worst Experience A Parent Can Experience
I was watching a program on TV tonight and a father was talking about the loss of his son through suicide. My heart went out to him. I did not lose my child through suicide. My child was taken away from me when he was born. Given up for adoption without consent because I was under age.… [Read More]
Facing Truths Without Your Birth Child
As the holiday season fast approaches for those of us who have lost a birth child it is not something we look forward to. As I told you in my post on December 23rd 2010 here It’s almost 2 years since I made that post. I wish I could say much has changed, it hasn’t.… [Read More]
Mother’s Day As A Birth Mother
Mother’s Day has always been like a funeral to me. I am a Mother without my child. Every day is hard, but Mother’s Day is especially hard, much more so when my son was taken away from me, and the many years I spent trying to find him. Even after finding him, and connecting, it felt the… [Read More]