I received a comment on Facebook asking “Why was he taken” Good question. I actually did a post asking ‘Why’, which goes into the ‘Why’ differently. View it Here. I do have theories. Here are some of them. 1. I Was Under Age. Perhaps my parents felt I could not take care of a baby on my… [Read More]
Your Birth Child May Not Know They Are Adopted
I know that statement is hard to read. It never occurred to me that this would be possible until I met my future husband. When my husband and I first met we knew there was something special between us. We knew we had an incredible connection right away. There were so many similarities. We fell… [Read More]
Compensation For The Loss Of Your Birth Child
I’m sorry it’s been such a long time since I did a post. Shortly after I did the last post my 18 year old cat, KC, go very sick. It was not an easy time, and there was little I could do. She passed away at home the first week in January. It broke my heart… [Read More]
The Loss Of A Birth Child Knows No Time Limit
I read an article the other day in our local paper. It was about a 15 year old girl who was forced to give up her baby at birth in 1982. No, this is not news for those of you who read my blog. There are a lot of us out there who had this happen… [Read More]
Adoption — The Double Edge Sword Of Emotion
Not everyone gives up a child for adoption for the same reason. Some women give up a child because of the lack of the birth father’s support, or because as a single parent they don’t have the financial resources to care for the child, or because the child is not their husband’s child — there… [Read More]
The Tragedy Of Not Telling Someone They Are Adopted.
I am in the unique situation of having a birthson, plus a husband that was adopted (birth father — adoptive mother). I don’t know much about my son being told he was adopted. My memory is that my birth son said he was young when he was told and said something like “ok, can I… [Read More]